super brief but updated non the less

I'm here.  Mostly.  I'm mostly sleeping.  They have me on pain meds and muscle relaxers and pain patches.  I can't sit much as it makes me super tired and dizzy.  I spend most of my day laying in bed sleeping, with bits of TV viewing. 
Yesterday my incision was red and I ran a low grade all day.  Today the fever is done.  I meet back with my surgeon on Thursday.
Last week I ended up at the ER.  CT showed CSF collecting along the incision.  They sent me to a pain specialist who changed my meds around.  It's helped.  Not cured but helped.
the family is pretty good.  Adjusting the life.
i know this update is super duper short but honestly it's all I have energy for right now.  I will slowly try to get more detailed updates up over the next few days.